Level 4 exam — harder

Exam — fresh questions

4.1 · Application

1. What distinguishes assertiveness from aggression?

Assertiveness asserts itself while respecting the other person; aggression imposes at the expense of the relationship.
4.1 · Scenario

2. Which phrasing illustrates an "I" message?

The "I" message expresses feeling and need without directly accusing the other person, which defuses defensiveness.
4.2 · Recall

3. What does DESC stand for regarding feedback?

DESC structures constructive feedback: Describe the facts, Express your feeling, Specify the request, Consequences expected.
4.2 · Application

4. What is the best reflex when RECEIVING feedback?

Listening without justifying yourself right away, saying thanks, then asking questions to understand, is the most constructive stance.
4.2 · Scenario

5. A manager tells an employee "you're careless". What's missing from this feedback?

Judging the person rather than describing an observable fact is the main pitfall of poorly formulated feedback.
4.3 · Recall

6. What does the OFNR acronym stand for in NVC?

NVC is structured in four steps: Observation, Feeling, Need, Request (OFNR).
4.3 · Application

7. Is "I feel betrayed" a real feeling in NVC?

"Betrayed" assigns intent to the other person: it's a disguised judgment, not a pure feeling like "worried" or "disappointed".
4.4 · Application

8. What does negotiating on interests rather than positions mean?

The position is what's demanded; the interest is the real need behind it. Negotiating on interest opens unexpected solutions.
4.5 · Recall

9. What are Cialdini's six levers of influence?

Cialdini's six principles are: reciprocity, commitment/consistency, social proof, authority, liking and scarcity.
Cross-cutting · Dilemma (V3 new)

10. Dilemma — Yasmine must say no to an urgent request from the director while two colleagues are waiting for her help. She…

Assertiveness: a clear, respectful refusal + brief reason + alternative — neither passivity (accepting everything, botching everything) nor aggression.
Cross-cutting · Dilemma (V3 new)

11. Dilemma — In the middle of a disagreement, a colleague suggests dressing up the pilot teams' numbers "to convince faster". Yasmine…

The integrity red line: influence with true facts for a shared interest; faking numbers = manipulation that destroys trust.
Cross-cutting · Dilemma (V3 new)

12. Dilemma — Karim keeps interrupting Yasmine in front of leadership. Torn between DESC, NVC and blowing up, she…

Corrective feedback one-on-one, about facts, never about the person or in public — and without bottling up into passive explosion.
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